Because I am a new mom I am constantly learning all new things baby and mom. Even though I have grown up around babies and children you truly have a million firsts when you become a mom. Here are some things I have found that Emma has been doing and also her likes/loves.
So far (we are at 8wks. old) she is lifting her head constantly and is able to hold it up on her own. Now she does get tired pretty quickly so it is pretty wobbly but she is getting really good at it, I am guessing that in a few weeks she will have that complete control :)
Also at 8wks she is going through another growth spurt (she had her first at 3wks, crazy I know, I thought babies were in a constant growth spurt haha) so she is eating and sleeping CONSTANTLY but growing like a weed, we are in 3month clothes already. My little bean sprout is getting more and more beautiful every day and I can't wait to see how much more she shapes into being a gorgeous human being inside and out.
The little bit of hair that buffed off is back and growing growing growing! I love and Jon even said last night "I can't wait to put it in a pony tail." Oh this boy is crazy about his little "bug" as he calls her.
Loves:
Her back play time...Oh lord if she is fussy we just lay her either on a blanket or her play pad and she is in heaven! She doesn't know how to play with the different things on it but she loves just laying there looking at everything.
We aren't super in love with tummy time like we use to be but we still do enjoy it, until we get too tired of lifting our head or too frustrated that she can't tuck her legs under herself or roll over yet. But she is getting so stinkin close!
Also she is starting to drool like crazy and pulling my finger (yes they are clean!) in her mouth and rubbing them on her gums and chewing on them....now I know babies start teething at around 6 months but do they start any earlier? She could just like chewing on something I don't know.
What are your babies up to??
Happy Monday Mommies :)
Monday, July 23, 2012
Getting back to me
Good Morning all new Mommies!
I'm sure it won't last but right now we are so lucky because Emma is now sleeping through the night....at 2 months old! We are LOVING the extra rest but I have to admit now that I am back to work I miss that her and I time we had when she would wake up at 2 for a change and a feeding. BUT it has given me the energy to start getting back to me.
SO...I have yet again started a new blog...I will still have this one for my Mommy encounters, experiences, and tips but now I am also passionate about not only helping myself but helping others on their journey as well.... Enjoy :)
I'm sure it won't last but right now we are so lucky because Emma is now sleeping through the night....at 2 months old! We are LOVING the extra rest but I have to admit now that I am back to work I miss that her and I time we had when she would wake up at 2 for a change and a feeding. BUT it has given me the energy to start getting back to me.
SO...I have yet again started a new blog...I will still have this one for my Mommy encounters, experiences, and tips but now I am also passionate about not only helping myself but helping others on their journey as well.... Enjoy :)
Thursday, July 12, 2012
Shower...what is that again??
Well it's been a very interesting, boring at times, and amazing every day last couple months...
Our baby girl is here and is doing great. She looks just like her daddy which I love, but she is a diva already just like her mamma :). We are completely in love with her and love every minute of our new lives. It's been exhausting but so wonderful and I love every minute and for those who are new moms or are on your way to becoming first time mommies there are some things that I wanted to share.
I will be honest we are one of those really annoying couples who got extremely lucky and have a baby who is not only extremely happy and a great eater but she immediately had a sleep schedule, she wakes up once during the night and then we don't hear a peep until around 5/6. HOWEVER...keep reading!
They tell you to rest and to sleep when the baby is sleeping.....good luck. the first few days or even week, yes that is all you will do and will want to do, but after that it's pretty tough to do so unless you have someone there to help you....then I'm sure it's completely possible. For me, I had no help because Jon was working, my mom was covering for me and everyone else was working and/or I didn't want to burden them to come over and watch my baby while I slept or even showered. I feel like as a new mom you want to be super woman and try to accomplish every thing possible. At first I was really upset that I didn't have any help but now looking back I'm happy I didn't. I got to spend every second with my little girl and she didn't care if I hadn't gotten dresses, showered, or even brushed me teeth, she just loves being loved on.
You will find that you will not have the memory space to remember even the simplest things so I strongly suggest making a list and as stupid as it may seem....just do it and trust me....or don't and then realize you should have...you're choice.
**Daily Do's**
1. go to the bathroom before changing/feeding time (it can take a while and you don't want to take that bottle or boob away until that baby is satisfied or it will be World War 3)
2. Brush your teeth
3. Shower (this can be a tough one, I found it easiest to shower as soon as her second morning feeding happened when she fell asleep but I did just get a tip that said to bring your baby in their car seat in the bathroom with you and have them on the floor, that way you can hear if they cry and can even sing to the baby while showering....it take multi-tasking to a whole knew level)
4. EAT you will not remember this...trust me, you won't even feel hungry. It's so important especially if you're breastfeeding, that baby needs just as many nutrients as when you were pregnant, plus you need to be as energized as possible to care for baby!
5. SLEEP when possible. If you are able to sleep when baby sleeps, do it...really do it, it helps more than you think and by getting that rest you are easing away those "baby blues" you may get. Lack of sleep can make you feel way more overwhelmed, causing you to feel more depressed...hence baby blues. Getting that rest is going to make you more alert and much more able to handle struggles head on.
Finally and most importantly, enjoy every second you can because they seriously grow so fast and if you are like me and are going back to work you miss every little thing so really soak it up. I honestly do love every moment from waking up at 2, when she screams at me, and even when she poops on me. My baby girl has stolen my heart and I love her more than I can even begin to describe. From the minute I met her I have been feeling that indescribable feeling moms talk about when they say that "right when you see them it's a feeling you can't explain." Have fun moms!!! :)
Our baby girl is here and is doing great. She looks just like her daddy which I love, but she is a diva already just like her mamma :). We are completely in love with her and love every minute of our new lives. It's been exhausting but so wonderful and I love every minute and for those who are new moms or are on your way to becoming first time mommies there are some things that I wanted to share.
I will be honest we are one of those really annoying couples who got extremely lucky and have a baby who is not only extremely happy and a great eater but she immediately had a sleep schedule, she wakes up once during the night and then we don't hear a peep until around 5/6. HOWEVER...keep reading!
They tell you to rest and to sleep when the baby is sleeping.....good luck. the first few days or even week, yes that is all you will do and will want to do, but after that it's pretty tough to do so unless you have someone there to help you....then I'm sure it's completely possible. For me, I had no help because Jon was working, my mom was covering for me and everyone else was working and/or I didn't want to burden them to come over and watch my baby while I slept or even showered. I feel like as a new mom you want to be super woman and try to accomplish every thing possible. At first I was really upset that I didn't have any help but now looking back I'm happy I didn't. I got to spend every second with my little girl and she didn't care if I hadn't gotten dresses, showered, or even brushed me teeth, she just loves being loved on.
You will find that you will not have the memory space to remember even the simplest things so I strongly suggest making a list and as stupid as it may seem....just do it and trust me....or don't and then realize you should have...you're choice.
**Daily Do's**
1. go to the bathroom before changing/feeding time (it can take a while and you don't want to take that bottle or boob away until that baby is satisfied or it will be World War 3)
2. Brush your teeth
3. Shower (this can be a tough one, I found it easiest to shower as soon as her second morning feeding happened when she fell asleep but I did just get a tip that said to bring your baby in their car seat in the bathroom with you and have them on the floor, that way you can hear if they cry and can even sing to the baby while showering....it take multi-tasking to a whole knew level)
4. EAT you will not remember this...trust me, you won't even feel hungry. It's so important especially if you're breastfeeding, that baby needs just as many nutrients as when you were pregnant, plus you need to be as energized as possible to care for baby!
5. SLEEP when possible. If you are able to sleep when baby sleeps, do it...really do it, it helps more than you think and by getting that rest you are easing away those "baby blues" you may get. Lack of sleep can make you feel way more overwhelmed, causing you to feel more depressed...hence baby blues. Getting that rest is going to make you more alert and much more able to handle struggles head on.
Finally and most importantly, enjoy every second you can because they seriously grow so fast and if you are like me and are going back to work you miss every little thing so really soak it up. I honestly do love every moment from waking up at 2, when she screams at me, and even when she poops on me. My baby girl has stolen my heart and I love her more than I can even begin to describe. From the minute I met her I have been feeling that indescribable feeling moms talk about when they say that "right when you see them it's a feeling you can't explain." Have fun moms!!! :)
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Labor
Now I know this post will get edited as soon as baby is born to try and better explain labor but there are some things I have been reading about labor, how to handle it the best you can, and your different options.
If you were able to take birthing classes then you are well aware of everything I am about to say and even more! I was not one of those people who could afford to take those classes so I did my best researching the internet and just talking to people. Here are some things to know.
* I stated in my previous post that every pregnancy is different and every woman is different, this is absolutely true but there are some things to NOT ignore. If you are able to clearly tell you're in labor make sure you are keeping count of how often you are getting those contractions (they say that once you each 5-7min you should go in), also once you can't talk or walk through them...it's go time, get to that hospital (if you're still at home). If your water breaks you don't have to rush immediately to the hospital especially if you haven't had any contractions, water breaking is good, but doesn't mean you have to rush right over there, that being said your baby’s world just exploded and you don't want to wait forever, now there is NOTHING wrong with going to the hospital right away if your water breaks, it actually may be a very good idea, just don't freak out if they tell you to go home and rest until you have really close together contractions because they really do this all the time.
*Make sure you have your Birth Plan with you. Not only are they great to have with you so you are being listened to but they are the best way to get research and get familiar with all the lingo you will be hearing in the hospital. I was told by one doctor that birth plans really aren't necessary....ridiculous....if it's important to you to have FILL ONE OUT AND BRING IT! This is YOUR baby and YOUR delivery, your wishes should be listened to and you have every right to want and not want certain things. Here is the best birth plan I found for us. There are a million out there and most of your local hospitals have one listed on their website to print out and fill out. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed with any part of your birth plan. Now it's also really important to remember that not every wish will be granted in your birth plan. You baby controls how labor goes, he/she is in control and sometimes nothing goes according to the birth plan so don't get stressed if you soon realize that your birth plan is going out the window, some things you can control so don't forget that!
*When you are in labor, especially if you're at home still, make sure you do whatever you can to help you relax. Don't start cleaning the house life crazy or going for a jog. RELAX, your body need to be in a relaxed state to properly handle labor and even though it is going to the hardest thing you'll ever do, just keep telling yourself that labor pain is GOOD and that it is pushing your baby out into this world. I read multiple places that once you have come to terms with the fact that it's going to hurt and why it has to hurt; the pain isn't as severe...is this true? I have a feeling I may re-touch on this subject. If you can take a bath, take one; soak for as long as you can stand it. Have a heating pad? Use it! Nothing will take the pain away, but there are so many breathing techniques, relaxation techniques, and other things you can do to subside the pain as much as possible until you get pain meds (if you take that route) or until it's time to push and get this baby out. It is true that our bodies can handle labor, we have been doing it for 100's of thousands of years, BUT medicine also allows us to stay more relaxed and have a smoother, sometimes faster labor. So don't ever push something out of your mind until you research it!
If you were able to take birthing classes then you are well aware of everything I am about to say and even more! I was not one of those people who could afford to take those classes so I did my best researching the internet and just talking to people. Here are some things to know.
* I stated in my previous post that every pregnancy is different and every woman is different, this is absolutely true but there are some things to NOT ignore. If you are able to clearly tell you're in labor make sure you are keeping count of how often you are getting those contractions (they say that once you each 5-7min you should go in), also once you can't talk or walk through them...it's go time, get to that hospital (if you're still at home). If your water breaks you don't have to rush immediately to the hospital especially if you haven't had any contractions, water breaking is good, but doesn't mean you have to rush right over there, that being said your baby’s world just exploded and you don't want to wait forever, now there is NOTHING wrong with going to the hospital right away if your water breaks, it actually may be a very good idea, just don't freak out if they tell you to go home and rest until you have really close together contractions because they really do this all the time.
*Make sure you have your Birth Plan with you. Not only are they great to have with you so you are being listened to but they are the best way to get research and get familiar with all the lingo you will be hearing in the hospital. I was told by one doctor that birth plans really aren't necessary....ridiculous....if it's important to you to have FILL ONE OUT AND BRING IT! This is YOUR baby and YOUR delivery, your wishes should be listened to and you have every right to want and not want certain things. Here is the best birth plan I found for us. There are a million out there and most of your local hospitals have one listed on their website to print out and fill out. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed with any part of your birth plan. Now it's also really important to remember that not every wish will be granted in your birth plan. You baby controls how labor goes, he/she is in control and sometimes nothing goes according to the birth plan so don't get stressed if you soon realize that your birth plan is going out the window, some things you can control so don't forget that!
*When you are in labor, especially if you're at home still, make sure you do whatever you can to help you relax. Don't start cleaning the house life crazy or going for a jog. RELAX, your body need to be in a relaxed state to properly handle labor and even though it is going to the hardest thing you'll ever do, just keep telling yourself that labor pain is GOOD and that it is pushing your baby out into this world. I read multiple places that once you have come to terms with the fact that it's going to hurt and why it has to hurt; the pain isn't as severe...is this true? I have a feeling I may re-touch on this subject. If you can take a bath, take one; soak for as long as you can stand it. Have a heating pad? Use it! Nothing will take the pain away, but there are so many breathing techniques, relaxation techniques, and other things you can do to subside the pain as much as possible until you get pain meds (if you take that route) or until it's time to push and get this baby out. It is true that our bodies can handle labor, we have been doing it for 100's of thousands of years, BUT medicine also allows us to stay more relaxed and have a smoother, sometimes faster labor. So don't ever push something out of your mind until you research it!
Final Lesson: The End is Near
It has been a while since my last post...a LOT has been going on. But everyone is happy and healthy :)
We have been pretty closely monitored to make sure I don't start to get pregnancy induced hypertension (a.k.a. Preeclampsia) which has to do with your blood pressure and your body "leaking" protein. It isn't life threatening but it's something that can cause stress on the baby which is never a good thing. The only way to get rid of it is to have your child. Now there are so many different stages of this, sometimes you have it so bad to where they have and WILL get the baby out as soon as they feel they can survive outside the womb, and other times you have it the rest of your pregnancy and everything is peachy. I was so lucky to not have been diagnosed fully but have been on that boarder line fence for some time now and all I can do is take it easy, not get stressed, and keep my feet elevated for as long as possible....and drink lots of fluids.
For first time moms, at least for me, I have the constant question of what is a contraction....I have NEVER had them before, how am I suppose to tell. I HATE the repsonse "you'll know".....shut up. Since every pregnancy is different and everyone handles pain differently how do you really "know." I asked two different doctors about that contractions consist of and have gotten two COMPLETELY different answers, and I really believe it's because they each experienced labor differently, they have different pain tolerances. Now I am not too concerned and have realized that since I have been "crampy" and "tight" for quite some time now that I am just going to wait until one of the following:
1. My water breaks
2. I have such intense pain that doesn't go away when I change positions.
3. I am told at one of my appointments that I am in fact in labor....which is what my last doctor's appointment almost turned into but it was "false labor" and guess what...I HAD NO CLUE, NO SYMPTOMS...NOTHING.
First time mom's this is scary....period. But not knowing when you are going to go into labor is even more scary because we don't know what it feels like to go into labor or have a baby. The only thing we can do is wait for those CLEAR signs but guess what, sometimes your water doesn't break on it's own, sometimes you don't feel the begining stages of labor, every woman is different and doesn't fit into that "movie" role where your water breaks and you have your baby 15min later....oh wait THAT NEVER HAPPENS.
When you have reached that "final stretch" time crawls....I think it actually goes backwards at times. You are so excited to meet this beautiful miracle you created and you feel completely ready because of all the amazing gifts you received from your baby shower and from friends and family a long the way....then it hits you. "Am I actually ready?" For me it has been really tough the last month, I have been having those realizations that even though I am so thankful that we were lucky enough to even have children (because so many people in this world struggle with infertility every day) I wish we had done more. I wanted to travel and just leave for a weekend. I wanted to move some more, maybe even to another state, just for awhile. I even wanted to get married before having babies, I wanted that "selfish" time with my husband until we felt financially and physically stable enough to have kids. That's when reality slapped me in the face and reminded me that we have no control over what happens in our lives. I firmly believe that our paths have already been drawn and yes we have a million choices to get us to the end of that road, ultimately our lives are already mapped out and it NEVER happens on our dime or the way we want it to.
I don't feel like I am ready for this baby also because it is so terrifying being responsible for a human life and keeping them alive, now family and friends will tell you that you're going to be great and you'll be just fine but these are fears that I know will never go away once she's here, I will always worry about her, always worry about if I am doing things right and if I am raising her the "right" way.
I also don't feel like our house is ready, I feel like we have to do so much before she is here but the pure fact that I am exhausted when I get home from work has been keeping me from making our house good enough for the greatest roommate we will ever have.
With all these fears, comes so much excitement. I can't wait to see the color of her hair, her eyes, her beautiful smile and her dimples. I can't wait to see who she grows up to be and all the characteristics she shares with Jon and myself. We are so beyond lucky and completely honored to be surrounded by the most amazing families anyone could ask for. They have been so supportive and there every step of the way. I can't wait to give them the ultimate thank you gift, a baby girl :)
We are ready for you baby girl, and can't wait to meet you, you have one very excited daddy and one very anxious, excited, and uncomfortable mommy who can't wait to hold you, give you a million kisses and count every finger and every toe.
The end is near :)
We have been pretty closely monitored to make sure I don't start to get pregnancy induced hypertension (a.k.a. Preeclampsia) which has to do with your blood pressure and your body "leaking" protein. It isn't life threatening but it's something that can cause stress on the baby which is never a good thing. The only way to get rid of it is to have your child. Now there are so many different stages of this, sometimes you have it so bad to where they have and WILL get the baby out as soon as they feel they can survive outside the womb, and other times you have it the rest of your pregnancy and everything is peachy. I was so lucky to not have been diagnosed fully but have been on that boarder line fence for some time now and all I can do is take it easy, not get stressed, and keep my feet elevated for as long as possible....and drink lots of fluids.
For first time moms, at least for me, I have the constant question of what is a contraction....I have NEVER had them before, how am I suppose to tell. I HATE the repsonse "you'll know".....shut up. Since every pregnancy is different and everyone handles pain differently how do you really "know." I asked two different doctors about that contractions consist of and have gotten two COMPLETELY different answers, and I really believe it's because they each experienced labor differently, they have different pain tolerances. Now I am not too concerned and have realized that since I have been "crampy" and "tight" for quite some time now that I am just going to wait until one of the following:
1. My water breaks
2. I have such intense pain that doesn't go away when I change positions.
3. I am told at one of my appointments that I am in fact in labor....which is what my last doctor's appointment almost turned into but it was "false labor" and guess what...I HAD NO CLUE, NO SYMPTOMS...NOTHING.
First time mom's this is scary....period. But not knowing when you are going to go into labor is even more scary because we don't know what it feels like to go into labor or have a baby. The only thing we can do is wait for those CLEAR signs but guess what, sometimes your water doesn't break on it's own, sometimes you don't feel the begining stages of labor, every woman is different and doesn't fit into that "movie" role where your water breaks and you have your baby 15min later....oh wait THAT NEVER HAPPENS.
When you have reached that "final stretch" time crawls....I think it actually goes backwards at times. You are so excited to meet this beautiful miracle you created and you feel completely ready because of all the amazing gifts you received from your baby shower and from friends and family a long the way....then it hits you. "Am I actually ready?" For me it has been really tough the last month, I have been having those realizations that even though I am so thankful that we were lucky enough to even have children (because so many people in this world struggle with infertility every day) I wish we had done more. I wanted to travel and just leave for a weekend. I wanted to move some more, maybe even to another state, just for awhile. I even wanted to get married before having babies, I wanted that "selfish" time with my husband until we felt financially and physically stable enough to have kids. That's when reality slapped me in the face and reminded me that we have no control over what happens in our lives. I firmly believe that our paths have already been drawn and yes we have a million choices to get us to the end of that road, ultimately our lives are already mapped out and it NEVER happens on our dime or the way we want it to.
I don't feel like I am ready for this baby also because it is so terrifying being responsible for a human life and keeping them alive, now family and friends will tell you that you're going to be great and you'll be just fine but these are fears that I know will never go away once she's here, I will always worry about her, always worry about if I am doing things right and if I am raising her the "right" way.
I also don't feel like our house is ready, I feel like we have to do so much before she is here but the pure fact that I am exhausted when I get home from work has been keeping me from making our house good enough for the greatest roommate we will ever have.
With all these fears, comes so much excitement. I can't wait to see the color of her hair, her eyes, her beautiful smile and her dimples. I can't wait to see who she grows up to be and all the characteristics she shares with Jon and myself. We are so beyond lucky and completely honored to be surrounded by the most amazing families anyone could ask for. They have been so supportive and there every step of the way. I can't wait to give them the ultimate thank you gift, a baby girl :)
We are ready for you baby girl, and can't wait to meet you, you have one very excited daddy and one very anxious, excited, and uncomfortable mommy who can't wait to hold you, give you a million kisses and count every finger and every toe.
The end is near :)
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Baby Shower 411
I never knew that having a baby shower would be what mine was. I mean I knew it was a big deal, who doesn't want to celebrate a baby?? but all the planning that goes into it is almost as exhausting as the actual shower...almost. Here are some tips for a care-free baby shower!
1. If someone has already said they want to throw you a baby shower and you don't mind LET THEM. But don't be afraid of letting them know certain things you may want or not want...but don't over crowd them. They love you and will never make your baby's day a bad one.
2. Invite everyone! and I mean everyone. Even the people who know can't make it. It is an extremely sweet gesture to let someone far away or someone who will be out of town know that you still care about them.
3. Register at 2 different places (not all cities and states have the store you register at) but make sure you don't double up on what you are registering for....this can cause some chaos.
4. Rest before your shower! Keep those feet up and your voice silent. You have heard over and over that every ligament in your body is a lot softer...your vocal cords are going to get extremely strained from all the talking and your feet, knees, ankles....and every other part of your body will thank you if you take the time to rest before your shower.
5. EAT EAT EAT and DRINK DRINK DRINK before your shower, even if you know there will be food and refreshments there. You are going to be so busy talking to your friends and family that food and water will be the last thing on your mind until you start to wonder why you are so light headed.
6. When opening gifts, make sure you have a couple people around you. One person will need to write down the gift giver and also the gifts (and be as specific as possible, your gifts WILL blend together and no matter how much you love each thing, your exhausted mind will forget who got you what and having a detailed list will help a lot when you are writing your Thank You cards.). You will also want someone who can keep scooting gifts closer to you and also help clean up the wrapping/tissue paper as you toss it to keep things clean and organized.
7. Last but certainly not least. After you open your gifts, even though you will be sending out Thank You cards. Make sure to make an announcement thanking every single person for A. coming out to celebrate with you and B. for all the amazing gifts that are going to give your baby a great start!. and Have fun!!! This is just as much your day MOM as it is baby's!
1. If someone has already said they want to throw you a baby shower and you don't mind LET THEM. But don't be afraid of letting them know certain things you may want or not want...but don't over crowd them. They love you and will never make your baby's day a bad one.
2. Invite everyone! and I mean everyone. Even the people who know can't make it. It is an extremely sweet gesture to let someone far away or someone who will be out of town know that you still care about them.
3. Register at 2 different places (not all cities and states have the store you register at) but make sure you don't double up on what you are registering for....this can cause some chaos.
4. Rest before your shower! Keep those feet up and your voice silent. You have heard over and over that every ligament in your body is a lot softer...your vocal cords are going to get extremely strained from all the talking and your feet, knees, ankles....and every other part of your body will thank you if you take the time to rest before your shower.
5. EAT EAT EAT and DRINK DRINK DRINK before your shower, even if you know there will be food and refreshments there. You are going to be so busy talking to your friends and family that food and water will be the last thing on your mind until you start to wonder why you are so light headed.
6. When opening gifts, make sure you have a couple people around you. One person will need to write down the gift giver and also the gifts (and be as specific as possible, your gifts WILL blend together and no matter how much you love each thing, your exhausted mind will forget who got you what and having a detailed list will help a lot when you are writing your Thank You cards.). You will also want someone who can keep scooting gifts closer to you and also help clean up the wrapping/tissue paper as you toss it to keep things clean and organized.
7. Last but certainly not least. After you open your gifts, even though you will be sending out Thank You cards. Make sure to make an announcement thanking every single person for A. coming out to celebrate with you and B. for all the amazing gifts that are going to give your baby a great start!. and Have fun!!! This is just as much your day MOM as it is baby's!
Friday, March 23, 2012
After Baby Goal For New Mommy's
As I stated in my previous post, I get ready every day. I can't help it, I've always been this way, and I really don't mind it. Are there days where I just want to lay around the house and just stay in my jammies and crazy bed hair all day, ABSOLUTELY.
But I feel my best when I get ready, not for anyone or any reason in particular...I just like it....no scratch that..I LOVE it. Example, yesterday I finally broke down and bought a new curling iron so when I got home I curled my hair and was in the middle of doing a simply up do, type pony tail when Jon came home from golf (I was suppose to meet him at the clubhouse for dinner but he came home instead). I could feel him looking at me but I just kept focusing on how I was going to get a certain section of hair to behave itself, he said in a really sweet and "I feel bad now" way, "ohhh are you getting ready?" and I just looked at him and smiled and said, "nope! I'm just playing." I knew he didn't want to know anymore because he walked out of the bathroom haha. when I get a new shirt, or eye shadow, or hair accessory I love to play with it. Even if we just stay home, I still curl my hair because it's fun trying new styles and seeing what works and what doesn't. Plus, I think it's important for us girls...women, to do these thing FOR ourselves. My favorite time of day is when I am by myself doing my hair and make-up in the bathroom. It's silent, I do my thinking and it's the only part of my day that is my "me time."
Here are 3 things I think all new mommy's MUST do for themselves.
1.) Have your "Me" time. You will be exhausted, sore, and a walking cafeteria for a while, especially in the days or sometimes weeks following baby's arrival. Take this time to have YOU time. When baby is sleeping, SLEEP, don't try and clean the whole house and keep up on the dishes and laundry just in case visitors drop by. Let people help you! The less you rest the longer it's going to take for you to heal and get back to you. "Me" time is crucial, whether sleeping is your Me time, taking a nice hot bath, or even running to get a simple pedicure...treat yourself to "Me" time, I promise you won't regret it.
2.) Take care of yourself. Your first priority is going to be your baby, hands down. You aren't going to matter that much to yourself, you won't find getting pampered, making yourself up, or even getting out of your jammies a priority. But you have to take care of yourself. I am not saying you need to be beauty pageant ready BUT I think it's important to take care of ourselves. We have a little being depending on us and why not feel our best and have that confidence flow over onto our babies. Sure our bodies are different, our hair will start falling out (around 3-4 months I am being told) and our hormones are going to be going a little crazy until they calm down but why not ease one department and do simple things. Even if it's just taking a shower that day (trust me, my friends who are new moms have days where they can't remember if they even showered), make tiny goals and stick to them. Simple little things are going to make yourself feel so much better and that day when you decide to get a cute outfit on, do your hair and make-up....you'll only be able to smile, because you'll see yourself starting to come back from "recovery."
3.) Enjoy your maternity leave! I am already dreading going back to work and I haven't even had Emma yet! No matter how long or short your maternity leave is ENJOY IT. As soon as you can get outdoors and take baby for a walk in the sunshine (Trick! I learned that taking baby outside where it is light and then keeping rooms darker at night time will teach them the different between light and dark and is suppose to help them sleep better). When they are a little older take them out to things they will never remember but things you can enjoy together while you are able to spend all the time in the world with them. Go to the zoo and see the animals, go to a lake, or take her to visit family and friends. Enjoy your maternity leave and every minute you have with baby so that when you go back to work you are feeling really good that you did as much as you could with them because once work starts back, you'll be double exhausted!
But I feel my best when I get ready, not for anyone or any reason in particular...I just like it....no scratch that..I LOVE it. Example, yesterday I finally broke down and bought a new curling iron so when I got home I curled my hair and was in the middle of doing a simply up do, type pony tail when Jon came home from golf (I was suppose to meet him at the clubhouse for dinner but he came home instead). I could feel him looking at me but I just kept focusing on how I was going to get a certain section of hair to behave itself, he said in a really sweet and "I feel bad now" way, "ohhh are you getting ready?" and I just looked at him and smiled and said, "nope! I'm just playing." I knew he didn't want to know anymore because he walked out of the bathroom haha. when I get a new shirt, or eye shadow, or hair accessory I love to play with it. Even if we just stay home, I still curl my hair because it's fun trying new styles and seeing what works and what doesn't. Plus, I think it's important for us girls...women, to do these thing FOR ourselves. My favorite time of day is when I am by myself doing my hair and make-up in the bathroom. It's silent, I do my thinking and it's the only part of my day that is my "me time."
Here are 3 things I think all new mommy's MUST do for themselves.
1.) Have your "Me" time. You will be exhausted, sore, and a walking cafeteria for a while, especially in the days or sometimes weeks following baby's arrival. Take this time to have YOU time. When baby is sleeping, SLEEP, don't try and clean the whole house and keep up on the dishes and laundry just in case visitors drop by. Let people help you! The less you rest the longer it's going to take for you to heal and get back to you. "Me" time is crucial, whether sleeping is your Me time, taking a nice hot bath, or even running to get a simple pedicure...treat yourself to "Me" time, I promise you won't regret it.
2.) Take care of yourself. Your first priority is going to be your baby, hands down. You aren't going to matter that much to yourself, you won't find getting pampered, making yourself up, or even getting out of your jammies a priority. But you have to take care of yourself. I am not saying you need to be beauty pageant ready BUT I think it's important to take care of ourselves. We have a little being depending on us and why not feel our best and have that confidence flow over onto our babies. Sure our bodies are different, our hair will start falling out (around 3-4 months I am being told) and our hormones are going to be going a little crazy until they calm down but why not ease one department and do simple things. Even if it's just taking a shower that day (trust me, my friends who are new moms have days where they can't remember if they even showered), make tiny goals and stick to them. Simple little things are going to make yourself feel so much better and that day when you decide to get a cute outfit on, do your hair and make-up....you'll only be able to smile, because you'll see yourself starting to come back from "recovery."
3.) Enjoy your maternity leave! I am already dreading going back to work and I haven't even had Emma yet! No matter how long or short your maternity leave is ENJOY IT. As soon as you can get outdoors and take baby for a walk in the sunshine (Trick! I learned that taking baby outside where it is light and then keeping rooms darker at night time will teach them the different between light and dark and is suppose to help them sleep better). When they are a little older take them out to things they will never remember but things you can enjoy together while you are able to spend all the time in the world with them. Go to the zoo and see the animals, go to a lake, or take her to visit family and friends. Enjoy your maternity leave and every minute you have with baby so that when you go back to work you are feeling really good that you did as much as you could with them because once work starts back, you'll be double exhausted!
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